Have you ever thought that sometimes its actually useless to say sorry... You can get someones forgiveness but its takes alot more to forget... if you caused a big mess in that person's life saying sorry will not really help... it is just a way of admitting you are wrong... there is actually no way you can make the situation better... The person has to pick up the mess that you caused yourself... Wat can I say... haiz... Always put yourself in other ppl shoes... Sometimes i feel like that is very hard thing to do and very tiring to think so much... but its a must do especially if you dun want to hurt those around you... then they will start avoiding you... Everyone has lessons to learn in there life. We learn from them and grow from them... lets all grow together...

And for those hurt... i really dunno if there is something i can do to help you... haiz... or is it something that only you can settle... Pray that you are strong in all aspects...

I dunno whether I am making sense here... i am not very good at expressing myself...