Today my sister told me in the real corporate world it never pays to be kind and nice. Cause they can never go up the ladder. They only get stepped on. So it is hard to balance being nice and achieving success in career... Sometimes i find my sister a bit unsculpholous (dunno how to spell) but I know deep inside she is a really kind person... It is just circumstances force her to be the way she is now. This real world is full of back stabbers and gossippers. During my attachment I already can see it happening already. I know when I pass out as a real staff nurse I will experience the effect but I can consider myself lucky cause it is sure better than working in real business companies where ppl are really competing for watever it is being promotion, money etc... At least in nursing I have a aim... My aim is for the patient well being...Everything is secondary... whether it is relationship with doctors or other nurses...